A crazy thing happened on the way to the wedding last week. Well, not really “on the way,” but I couldn’t resist using a funny line. It actually happened the day before the wedding when the bride and groom and several family members walked to the beach to see where the ceremony might take place.
So, what happened? In several locations between beach houses, I spied an unknown herbaceous plant, about 30-inches tall with pinky-purple tips, that was literally humming with bees and other insects. With more important things at hand, I stayed focused on the moment but made a mental note to scrutinize and photograph the plant later.
Now that you’ve seen the mystery plant, I hope you’re not laughing at my expense. I have the uncomfortable notion, especially after examining the USDA plant profile showing the extensive range of our native Monarda punctata, that I might be the last gardener in the Carolinas to know this mint, commonly called spotted horsemint or spotted beebalm.
Even worse, after seeing the plant up close, I admit I still couldn’t figure out what it was. At first I believed it was a beebalm, but when I couldn’t find a similar beebalm on the internet, I thought perhaps a phlomis (because of the number of flower whorls). Clearly, I was lost without my plant reference books. Finally, I had the good sense to email Terry, my “go to” friend for plant ID, and she immediately provided the name.
Many areas near the beach, from sun to part shade, were packed with hundreds of these plants, so the native obviously thrives in sandy soil and dry heat, and self-seeds freely. Interestingly, its pale yellow flowers are rather inconspicuous, but each flower head rests upon a showy circle of leafy bracts in an eye-catching shade of pink to lavender. The lance-shaped foliage smells amazingly like oregano, and I’ve since read it can be used as a substitute.
Most amazing of all, however, was the number and variety of insects visiting the flowers. Reliable sources say the plant also attracts butterflies, though I don’t recall seeing any.
As an interesting side note…..we had planned on a florist’s bouquet for the bride, but when the time of the wedding was moved from early evening to daybreak (because of the extreme heat), we realized the flowers wouldn’t arrive in time, so I offered to pinch-hit. Then, I had a fleeting thought of adding some of the “pink blooms” seen at roadside to a home-made bouquet before my brain leaped to “bees at wedding = not good.” You’ll be glad to know, I’m sure, that sanity prevailed and the flowers rustled up at a local grocery store worked out just fine.
Lovely story! And what a bizarre plant, very Phlomis-like I agree!
Alison–I’m so glad someone agrees!
Alison–I agree. The stacked flowers threw me a curve, as did the colored bracts.
Very nice find and thanks for sharing.
Pinch-hit means?
Adrian–Pinch-hit means “act as a substitute.” It comes from baseball, when one batter takes the place of another.
love this..
Beautiful and to think that it grows wild round you, it looks very garden- worthy.
What a little cutie you have there, with such a lovely smile.
Chloris–I might try some seeds on the sandy riverbank. I would love to have this beebalm in my garden.
Love this story! And hooray for our real life Google girl, Terry!!
I couldn’t look at the flowers for looking at your “little miss.” She is priceless.
John–And she has an equally adorable little brother. We are very lucky…just don’t get to see them often enough.
We have a California family, so we know what that’s like.
I didn’t know this plant Marian. What a fun story. Your bouquet for the bride is gorgeous and what a treat that you had the opportunity to make it. Lovely child–happy times.
Susie–Oh, I’m glad I wasn’t the only person in the dark about this great plant. Making the bouquet was fun, and I had help from my daughter-in-law (mother of our “little miss”), which was especially nice.
Precious!
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Your bouquet is lovely, Marian! And thanks for another plant ID. This must be a southern native as I’ve never seen it up here. It is eye-catching!
Eliza–A very long time ago, I thought about being a florist, but my interest in flowers turned toward gardening and I’m glad it did. I like arranging, but I’m partial to plants with roots!
You made a smart choice. Florists are on their feet all day, holidays are manic/stressful and they’re constantly exposed to pesticides that aren’t regulated, so can be used up to day of harvest. I know a lot of women in the industry who had miscarriages, stillbirths and of the children who survived, many had health/learning issues. Not good and no one ever talks about it. 😦 Sadly, the conditions are worse in Colombia, where most of the flowers are now grown.
Precious child! Lovely bouquet! Great info on the bee balm–I did not know it. I just hope I’ll remember it if I see it sometime! 😉
Martha–Okay, that’s at least two other Carolinians that didn’t know it; now I don’t feel quite so stupid. LOL
A good call on not using the Bee Balm, especially for a little girl’s bouquet. The previous wedding photos were beautiful. It was so perfect and simple on the beach.
Auto–The wedding was very personal and absolutely perfect for the bride and groom, who are both very casual and a tad bohemian.
I have it in my garden and love it! But it acts like an annual for me and doesn’t reseed in my clay. It even grows in dry bright shade 🙂
Tammy–Great to know! I’m definately trying it!
Horsemint is certainly an interesting plant, but the look of it does not appeal to me. That last picture is adorable, though.
I am sure that everything was beautiful! Congratulations to all!